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Relax
Easier said than done, right? đ
When real contractions hit one of the best things that you can do is to relax. The problem here is that the first instinct that we have when we feel contractions is to brace ourselves against them.
Itâs a common reaction to tense us when you feel pain.
Unfortunately, when we tense up our muscles during a contraction it can lead to more pain with the contraction. This increase of pain with the contractions can then lead to fear of the next contraction. That increase in fear can often lead to more tension.
This is what we call the Fear-Tension-Pain cycle and BOY is this a real thing in labor.
So, how do we RELAX?
I have some great ideas, but couldnât fit them into an email. Hereâs a video all about it that I know you will enjoy. (itâs my best tip for labor!)


Even though itâs important to relax your muscles during a contraction, it is the last thing that support people should say to someone in labor!
âRelease your musclesâ is a great alternative to saying âRELAXâ
If you are interested in learning more tips for the support person then youâll really want to check out this video for Dads.

Build your positive mindset with these quick daily affirmation videos. {4 minute time investment}
Positive affirmations can reduce stress hormones. In addition, many people find them grounding and encouraging too. Listening to 4 minutes of positive affirmations certainly canât hurt and can be done while getting ready in the morning!

Are You Ready for Childbirth? Letâs Make Sure!
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Birth Toolbox - On demand course designed to help couples easily fill their toolbox with practical skills for pregnancy, labor and birth.
SupportingHer - Dads class that is an easy way to learn what he needs to know, at his pace, in just over two hours from his computer or phone.


